I wish I had the courage to send it.
Hey. I’m reaching out for one reason, I want some closure and a clearer understanding of what actually happened. I’m not trying to restart anything between us.
I know I didn’t handle things well, especially how I left, and I know that hurt you. I own that. At the same time, I also know there are things you’ve probably heard about me that aren’t true. I wasn’t always honest either, so I think we both ended up with a version of each other that isn’t completely real.
If we do talk, I need it to stay between just us, no outside input. I want it to be honest, but not turn into accusations. If something feels like too much, we can skip it and come back to it. Either of us can take a break if we need to, no hard feelings. I just want a conversation where we can actually understand each other, not argue about who was right.
If you’re open to that, I’m willing to talk. If not, I get it, and I won’t reach out again.
I hope you’re doing okay