u/BlueberryDear4636

my (21F) first cousin (20F) is dating our second cousin (19M). she moved to another state with some relatives that reside there, one of them being our second cousin. they came to visit recently and she confessed that they are dating. her parents don’t know but his mom knows and is okay with it. while on vacation with them, they acted very clingy with each other and were constantly arguing about any little thing but would make up after a while. i think she’s only “attracted” to him because she doesn’t go out and doesn’t know anyone else there. it just doesn’t seem like the healthiest “relationship” and it just feels ethically wrong. help?
p.s. he’s also chopped.