u/Bluebebbies44

I’m seeing a guy, i really really thought he was different, but he’s done something stupid that’s made me rethink things, When i look back on past relationships, i feel like the guy has always done stupid things which end up hurting the other person. Nothing malicious, not like cheating, but just not ever taking the other person into account at all, things i would never do without thinking how it would affect my partner. Is this the “boys will be boys” that people talk about? This guy was so amazing, so mature in every way, and now he’s done something that (after a whole year) has made me question if i ever knew him at all. I feel like I give them so many chances, and they always screw up. This man has proven to me over and over that he loves me and that he’s genuinely a good person, I counted myself so lucky, bit now he’s done something that could genuinely affect my entire life, and i never expected that from him. Is it really all men? Before this i would’ve said no, it’s defo not all men. Bit i’m really questioning things now. I always thought relationships go both ways, but when every one ends in the man fucking up it makes me question things