UPDATE 05/07. Hi everyone, your comments are very heartwarming, I appreciate all of them!❤️ thanks for the advice and the kind words. Now to get to the ☕️. I also pondered if it could have been a false positive but I have chlamydia symptoms (I also wrote a comment but I think it got lost in the replies) I have this yellow-y thick discharge since mid to late march and in between periods bleeding, therefore I have some kind of infection 🤣. (I have pictures, ik it’s gross but I could post them?)I should have mentioned it in the post. I also got treated for BV cause my gyno thought it was that. Meds didn’t work, I still have it. Yesterday I facedtimed him and I confronted him… guess what! I am the cheater 🤣🤣🤣. I have never been with another man other than him so hahah. I swore up and down that it couldn’t be me cause I didn’t cheat and he swore the same. It’s bullshit but he started smoking cigarettes last year ( I hate smoking) and when I asked him if he started smoking, for 3 months he denied, (his mouth tasted like cigarettes, like does he think I’m dumb) and after I found cigarettes in his jacked he finally came clean. All this story to tell you that he has a history of hiding even stupid things. He said his conscience is clean because he didn’t cheat. Smh. Manipulation at its finest. He said he’s also gonna go get tested so we’ll see. I ended up breaking up with him because, as I’ve said in some comments, if he’s done it once he will do it again. We “mutually “ broke up because he said I lost his trust ???? Tf you cheated. Well, that’s men for you. 5 and a half years down the drain. This was the man I imagined growing old with 👍🏻.
Fuck my life, I feel like I’ve been ran over by a semi.
UPDATE 2 05/07. Also he was a virgin (I don’t like using this term) when we first met and had never done anything sexual with anyone. Therefore it’s not possible he caught it from a previous partner. He also could have been totally lying when he said those things . But an incubation period of 5 years???
OLD: Hello everyone. I feel like today my world fell off its axis. I am in complete shock and disbelief, disappointment… any negative word you could ever imagine, I am feeling right now. I am in need of some advice.
I have been withy boyfriend for 5 and half years, he is my first love, my first time, my first everything. (We got together when we were both 17). I went to get tested because I’ve been having this weird discharge for a couple of months and it’s not going away. I even went to a gyno and she said it was BV, but even after treatment it did not go away. So I got a vaginal swab and surprise! I am positive for Chlamydia. I never had sex with anyone else other than my bf, he was my first time; he claimed I was his first everything too, that he never had sex with anybody else. Now , to know that he cheated, my heart is shattered, because chlamydia is not like any other type of urinary track infection that it just happens, as everyone knows you can only get it through sex. Even when I asked him, before I went to the gyno, if he had sex with someone else he said no. I can’t wrap my head around the fact that he would do something so awful to me and also put my health at risk.
I feel like I am not the only one that this happened too? What did you do in this situation? I feel awful.