u/BlueMustash

I feel like my boyfriends mom and he wants to move out after we graduate

For context we're both in highschool, my boyfriend 18M and I 18F have been in a relationship for 9 months now. I work at a sports bar where the servers are known to make a lot of money, my boyfriend is unemployed and drives me to work. He graduates in a few weeks and wants to move out with me here in a few months. The only problem is I feel so detached from the relationship right now due to the fact that I feel like him mother. I pay for his gas, pay for his food, I do his laundry, clean his room, clean his car and all I get is a "sorry you always have to pay for everything" and a thanks. He's been applying to jobs with no luck recently. He has the option to go back to where he was working before he quit, he just doesn't want to. It's frustrating because I've talked to him about this and told him how I felt and in the moment it feels like he's listening but the next week he's asking me to get gas or food. I've paid $1,800 (all my savings) into helping him get his dream car fixed and it feels unfair because all I get is a kiss on the cheek because that's all he can afford. I got him a promise ring, a chain necklace, a fucking PC that he wanted ($310) and he just takes me to work. Our 8 month was a few days ago and he treated me to McDonald's of all places and took me thrifting. He spent 10 dollars that day and I spent $110 because he also wanted clothes at the thrift store and I had to pay for gas. He's so kind and supportive of me and loves me. He's so smart and good with math, and he's very social and can get along with anyone but I feel like when we move out together it's just gonna end up with me working 5 days a week paying for everything like I already do. I just need some advice on whether I should stay and invest in my boyfriend or just look for someone better.