Breaking no contact today
Hey guys this is my first time posting on this sub and I’m posting on my phone so formatting may be wonky. So a couple days ago I broke up with my then-boyfriend. I had the original plan to wait a month before breaking up. But I made a mistake. On my ex’s mom’s birthday I mentioned that I wanted to be friends if we broke up. My ex asked if I wanted to breakup and I should’ve said no. Anyways. That turned into us actually breaking up. My ex said he would try being friends with me. Well a little later it comes up that I had this one month plan to break up and my ex asks why don’t we stay together for one more month. I say why not and agree. Then I call my dad and tell him. He says it’s a bad idea and to block him. So I do. It’s been two days and I still want to be his friend. Hell I still want to date him. I’m going to break no contact when he gets off work today and ask if we can be friends. I’m afraid he’s going to be upset at me for blocking him but what can I do? I broke up with him because we have a 14 year age gap and he cannot financially support me which is a quality I look for in a partner. According to my dad there’s been some verbal abuse, just him saying I don’t care about him and I’m going to end up with an abuser. Anyways any advice would be appreciated.