Does anyone else have this issue romantically?
I’ve had this issue my whole life. The only people who seem to really want me, and like me, are the ones that I don’t like, and don’t feel attracted to.
The ones that I like and feel attracted to are the ones who don’t really want me. And no, my looks are not the problem. These men aren’t out of my league. I am in the same league as these men. My looks aren’t the issue here. It’s not a league thing, I’m telling you.
But yes, I’ve had this issue my whole life and I have no idea how to stop it. Which is making me blame the autism. Back in 8th grade, there was a boy who had a huge crush on me and he told me how amazing he thought I was. He liked me so much he would even give me candy at school. He would also text me a lot to show how much he liked me. But I did not like him at all. As a matter of fact, he made me sick. I did NOT like this boy at all. I cannot make this up. He would actually tell me how he thought I was amazing, and I would get irritated because I found him annoying. I did not like this boy ONE BIT.
As an adult, I still have this problem. And it seems to not be going away anytime soon. I was wondering if this was an autism thing? I have no idea why I’ve had this problem forever. The ones who I like and feel attracted to, seem to not really want me, but the ones I don’t want, are the ones that feel something for me, and they like me.