u/BloodstainedBearRug

I’m about at the end of my rope. Caught her cheating in December. I was willing to try and work things out, but she wanted a divorce. Claiming the tried and true ‘I love you but I’m not in love with you.’ I’ve decided to move but haven’t yet, the place I’m renting is open June 1.

Two weeks after the cheating was discovered we had to put our dog down. Then a shit Christmas. Missed vacation.

February I had an eye problem - bleeding inside my eye. That’s been going good until last week. Last week I ended up with a retina tear in that eye. I need to have surgery to fix it tomorrow. I need to lay face down for about a week afterwards, and I won’t be able to lift things to move for quite awhile.

I’m struggling hard core. Finances are fine, I guess, but besides that everything sucks. I wake up every day wishing I’d exit this nightmare. This can’t be real life.

My kid is on his first select semi-travel baseball team. I swear like 90% of the parents of the kids are divorced. You can cut the tension with a knife. Today was hilarious as all the moms were pretending to be super moms while drinking mimosas at a little league tournament at 8am.

In February I had a vitreous hemorrhage. Have had some shots for the diabetic retinopathy and the blood vessels as well wait for the blood to clear. Yesterday I noticed the shadow/veil thing going on. Called the after hours line and retina dr got me in today. Found a tear. He told me he’ll do a vitrectomy and repair and laser the f out of my eye this week(Wednesday or Thursday) then expect to be face down for 3-7 days. I’m also going through a divorce and planning to move out at the end of the month. I don’t know what the f I’m going to do. I’m so scared

Just curious. Also what you did, if anything. She always leaves the coffee maker without water.. she'll fill it just enough for one cup (its one of those auto espresso type machines that makes coffee).. I usually fill it completely.

I’m not sure if it’s even a lifter but sounds like it. Ink seems to do it when I’m over 2k rpm. Sometimes it will go away for a bit but always comes back.
2019 Silverado with the 5.3. 115k miles.

Any suggestions for me? I’m going through a divorce and need to keep this truck at least another year or two

Still living in the same house until June. As far as I'm concerned we've been separated since december 5th when I caught her cheating. If asked, perhaps by a potential date, how long have you been separated?

Wife wants to buy me out. How did you come up with a value? We’ve been here since 2015 and your house has appreciated enormously. Did you get a bank appraiser or a realtor or what?

Kid is almost 10. Busy with sports and school. Everythings shit. STBX and I are living in same home, separate rooms. Kid knows somethings up but not what. When to tell? Like.. what time of day, what day, after school.. see what i mean? He needs to knwo and I need to stop stressing about it. I want everything about this fucking divorce over so bad.

He’s almost 10. We’ve been living together while separated since December. He knows somethings wrong between us. Probably already knows. I’m scared he will hate one or both of us. I’m planning to move out in June. I’d rather end myself than tell him. I’m so traumatized over my parents divorce when I was a kid. I know it’s not the same. Logic tells me he will be better off than I could have hoped as a kid. But I’m still scared. My mental health is so bad. So so bad.