u/BlauAmeise

"But my family business needs to continue"

I guess it finally happened to me. I met a guy online and it was going really great between us and maybe more could have happened. He kinda indirectly said he has feelings for me and we kinda immediately started talking about kids because he asked me what my stance is. I explained I am childfree and I will never ever bring a child in this world. And then he explained to me something about his parents being real estate agents and how they need future people for their family business. It super grossed me out. And then he tried to say stuff like "You still have so much time and you just had bad experiences". When I said I could potentially look into adoption if it's over a certain age he kept saying it needs to be his kids. And how he thinks I could be a great mother. Super gross. Now I am seriously considering if I should still be friends with him or just block him but it stings a lot, man.

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u/BlauAmeise — 3 hours ago

So about me, I am 28, female and located in Europe and would like to meet some new people to have some chats with and eventually become friends ^^ We don't have to text every day I know that life can be busy but regular contact would be cool.

It's always easier to have people who share your interests so I am mainly looking for people who love similar stuff that I do. When it comes to music, I'm a big fan of visual kei, but also Japanese and Korean rap. One of my hobbies is motorsports and I love to follow F1, MotoGP and endurance races. Basically everything that has wheels and goes nyooom! Other than that, I recently got back into watching movies. I have a membership card and I'm in the cinema almost every other day :D I sometimes also watch some anime and follow Japanese culture a bit.

Gaming is another thing that I couldn't live without. Some of my favourite franchises include Pokémon, Digimon, Yakuza, Monster Hunter, Resident Evil and Animal Crossing <3 Other minor obsessions that I have include listening to true crime podcasts, actively following tattoo culture and sending online friends whatever fanart or memes I can find :)

If you're open for some chatting and becoming friends, feel free to send me a dm! I always prefer shorter messages instead of huge essay-like ones, so I would appreciate if you can keep that in mind! And it would be cool if you could shortly introduce yourself so I can get to know you better too.

If you read until here, thank you and I hope you have an amazing day <3

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u/BlauAmeise — 11 days ago