u/Blairbunnybun

I have been having sex with my boyfriend for a few months now, which seems bad as we've only been together for 8 months now, but we just really love each other and enjoy the feeling of each other yk? Back to the point school starts at 8:30 am everyday and my parents both work in the morning so id usually invite my boyfriend around 7:30, disconnect the wifi so the ring camera doesn't record and we'd have our fun. Earlier last month my mom found out though the camera that he came inside, and her confronting me made me scared so ofc I lied (worst mistake) until it got the point I spilled everything out. She was furious which ofc she had every right to be, but the stuff she said was hurtful. Calling me a "whore, disgrace" and even telling me she hopes I get pregnant (even though we use protection). She tells my dad and we all have a talk. After that my mom no longer likes my bf, matter of fact she HATES him, my dad doesn't care that much, he is disappointed, but not furious. My mom even threatened my boyfriend saying If she sees him near our house again she'd sue him and press charges for trespassing. Which makes me mad because why is she mostly getting mad at him than me?? And her reasoning is because as the man he shouldve said no to sex. My mom also forced my bf to tell his parents, which ofc his parents were upset but they understood. I apologized to my mom so many times, and ofc I don't expect her to forget about it but I at least want her to move on from it. But she just won't, she'd mention it, or we'd get into an argument over it and shed just constantly call me a whore. And atp it's just damaging me. I know I was in the wrong and I take accountability, but I just wish she wouldn't be like this? It's hurting me so much to the point I plan on moving out next year around August 2027, which seems bad, but that's my only choice? I have it good, I mean my parents spoil me and stuff and I really really do appreciate it but constantly getting told hurtful stuff just hurts so much to the point I just feel so bad.