u/Blahmore

Is anyone else the child of someone with BPD? Ever since my parents got divorced my mom has blamed every feeling she has on her children not being present enough in her life. Mothers day is especially rough now that she cancels any plans we have and throws a massive fit about how we only do things out of obligation and it just feels like a loyalty test. Now she sends nasty letters in the mail to my wife and I feel like I'm at my breaking point...but she's my mom and there are a lot of complicated feelings there. I guess im just curious how other children of BPD parents manage.​