So for context, I was cleaning the basement rather thoroughly the other day. I came across a small semi transparent tote that appeared to have stuff in it so naturally I opened the lid to see what was inside. I was greeted to about 30-50 photos of her and her ex boyfriend. (They dated for about 9 years off and on) It makes me feel pretty weird knowing this if I can be honest. I tried approaching the subject last night and she got really upset with me and accused me of snooping around. She said that I hurt my own feelings. Is this true? I love this woman with all of my heart and soul and wouldn't throw away what we have over some pictures. We have been together going on 5 years now and it probably shouldn't get to me, but this has really been bothering me for some reason. Like am I the asshole for not understanding why she wants to keep them? I'm coming to reddit for help. Please be as blunt as necessary. I appreciate all of the insight I can get.
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