u/BizarreTable

Not complaining since i own 4 haetaes 🌈

> We've been having issues. I told him to not text me today since I feel miserable.

> He went out of his way to text me ALL day, and call a friend to ask if I had abandoned him.

>I literally told him 4 times I'm sick.

This is from last post. I realize that yeah this is not going to last.

We've been dating for like 2 weeks.

On prom night. Turns out he had forgotten im a transman. And thought he was dating a girl this whole time. (Strange, since uh Viktor is a guy's name and i hang around a lot of trans groups, and i wore a suit to prom, and all of his friends know i am trans AND they use my preferred name).

I've known him since November.

I dont know what i was thinking when i went out with him. He is clingy and his parents arent approving of lgbtq (which is fine, different opinions yk?). And at prom he had a break down because im the first 'girlfriend' he has had that wasnt through online dating (he dated like 6 'girls' before me, each on discord) and turns out im trans. And part of the breakdown was because most of the 'girls' he dates end up transitioning.

I told him, we can break up or we can stay. His choice.

He chose to stay.

I dont feel like he likes me fully for being myself. But for the idea of having a 'girlfriend'. He deadnames me. He uses wrong pronouns even when corrected.

Overtime, ive given him the cold shoulder more. And i havent been the happiest with how this is going. I think he is straight + mongamy, while i am gay and poly.

We dont even have the same career ideas. We had another convo more recent than the one on screenshot 2. He has literally zero goals in life. His only hobby is watching anime with his 19 year old friend. He doesnt have any careers in mind etc. Since then, i got accepted into the most prestigious public medschool (pre med and med school are combined there) in my homecountry, 7k USD for the entire doctorates degree. I can then do my residency etc. And my mother is paying for it.

I love my fish tanks, i love researching about fish, i want to be a plastic surgeon. I got into college.

He has no hobbies, is failing most of his classes, has no dreams or ambitions. He doesnt really do much yk?

Screenshot 1 is today. SS 2 is from when we started dating. I felt like actually okay with him. And now it's almost ick-like??

Worst part is. He is the type of guy to kill himself over a breakup.

I dont know what to do.