u/Bitter_badhabits653

I am mentally and emotionally drained. I don't feel like this is a partnership. I am a married single mom. Who now has my MIL living at house (who BTW was only supposed to be here for 3 months, we are going on a year of her here). Mother's day is around the corner and truthfully I dont want him buying me anything. Whether its my birthday, mother's day, or our anniversary he always complains about how much he spent on me and makes me plan if I want to do anything. He makes me feel less than every time. Like I am not deserving of anything. So this year, I told him not to worry about buying me anything and treat it like another Sunday. I work hard, raise our 2 kids, cook, clean, go to school, and still that is not enough. Both him and MIL work and come home and relax. I genuinely can't do it anymore. I am broken down.