My sister should never have kids. And if she does I’ll be the first to tell her to abort.
Can’t take care of a dog in the slightest. The dog she begged for mind you. And she’s lucky my parents clean up after her and that dog. Sweetheart baby dog we’ve had now for 7 years. I said it was not mine to train. I had my old girl still at the time, and she took a lot of my funds as she was getting sick and I worked part time post college. I worked to keep my baby okay until she passed. My sister will change appointments the day before for the dog to buy weed. She refuses to work full time. And is stable… but mentally so so discombobulated.
For the longest she said she’d never have kids. But she’s been seeing a guy snd lost in him completely, and is now entertaining it. I told her to her face she shouldn’t have kids. She looked at me like I was crazy.
That child end up mine. Not in the “I’m taking it from u, u don’t deserve them.” I mean in the “CPS is being called for neglect, something needs to be done.”
It will be my parents and I with custody dealing with it. And I can almost promise it. So as evil as it is, every time she mentions it, I will double down and tell her she cannot take care of herself and should not procreate.
Am I insane? The most unstable, illogical and irresponsible, person I have ever met should not have kids. Ever. Someone with BPD shouldn’t even consider children until they have reached some kind of BORDERLINE sense of permanent stability. Slip up now and then, a mental illness doesn’t just fully leave you. What can u do. But out here high out ur mind ever waking moment, neglectful of every responsibility ever, and unhinged? Nope