AITA for telling my coworker to grow up
I (20f) told my male coworker (30?m) will call him bob to grow up.
Last Wednesday (5-6-26) my coworker was making snarky and rude comments to me all day and before I clocked out I had turned to another coworker and told him that Bob was getting on my nerves with his comments and that im happy to finally go home. Bob over heard and yelled at me and cussing me out claiming I was talking bad about him behind his back, when I said I wasn't and that I had simply said he was getting on my nerves he got angrier and continued to shout and yell. I stepped away and moved to the front of the building and Bob followed continuing to yell so I told him he needs to grow up and that he was acting like a toddler who isn't getting their way. He didn't like that and started calling me names and saying things along the lines of "at least im not a fat ugly bitch". I lost my cool a little and and I know im in the wrong for what I said next but I snapped back and said "at least Im not a meth head."
So Aita for telling my coworker to grow up?
Edit: I forgot to add that on Sunday he had came in made a snarky comment to me then later that day after he made multiple mistakes claimed that his brain was foggy because he "accidentally" took a double dose of his meds. Which makes me think hes back doing drugs again which would explain the aggression hes been having towards me
Edit because I forgot to add what I do for work. Im a pizza delivery driver for a big chain. The HR is who ever is acting manager and the manager had seen everything go down after I walked to the front