u/BitchCallMeGoku

When my partner and I initially began exploring opening our relationship we landed on DADT minus sharing when we found a consistent partner.

Now (as has been lamented often in the sub) I’m discovering DADT is uncomfortable. It feels like lying and being lied to. Like infidelity.

So I’m looking for ideas or examples of having transparency but not down to blow by blow details lol. Like even before finding a consistent sexual partner there’s a lot going on, like being on dating apps, initial meetups etc. Thanks for any insight!