u/Bipplee_

mostly asking but also kind of venting?
For a while now I have been confused and what a-spec I am. I know I am most definitely aroace but I never really had a crush before and I never got aroused in real life situations. The issue im struggling with is that I do really want a relationship (qpr probably) and I enjoy the idea of having cuddles and holding hands but mostly draw the kind at kissing and any sex related actions.

I have been in a real relationship before hut that kind of crashed and burned since that was around the time I found out I was aroace and it was a mess after that. That experience did however help me narrow kt down that I definitely don’t enjoy full romance but not completely opposed to the idea.