My (23M) fiancée (21F) keeps pushing us getting married back
My fiancée and I have been together for 3 years, engaged for 2, and every single time I have brought up us actually planning a wedding, she always says she doesn't know if she wants to right now and then finds some excuse whether it be money or she's scared we're going to get divorced. I tried talking to her about it today and the she said she wants to wait until after she gets her breast reduction (she doesn't even have the surgery scheduled yet). She says she wants to love how she looks and while I'm all for this and I support her every step of the way, it feels like another cop out for her because 3 months ago she was okay with getting married before she even had the idea of getting the surgery. Does anybody have any advice on what I should do next?