My bf said we aren’t spiritually aligned
My boyfriend met up with me last Wednesday to break up with me. He told me if we were to break up, that I would be the one to break up with him.
The week before, his parents invited us in because they saw me parked outside his house due to an argument him & I were having. I didn’t want them to hear anything. Later his mom came out & took him in to ask what was wrong with me / us. He told them. They invited us in to talk about our issues. I went in & did. It escalated, there was yelling etc, all of our relationship issues were just out there. His siblings were in their rooms… they were listening in. That same day his sister unfollowed me. He had went over to my dorm because, & the next morning his siblings called him to hurry and get home. He told me last Wednesday that on that day, they were telling him about a dream / vision that they had. He said they both had similar vision/dream. As he was telling me this it was all fingers pointing to me. He told me that there was a demon using me to get to him. They/he was trying to make it seem like I was a demonic force sent to destroy him lol. Mind you, his siblings are:
• 17 f & 19 m
• his sister blocks him when she doesn’t get attention from him / get what she wants
• both don’t have cars or jobs
• rely on him to borrow his car, buy them things, & take them places
• his dad relies on him to pay certain bills around the house because he has a spending problems (his dad has a shoe & car obsession)
I think he just made some up to break up with me… he was like “no”, then I was like “you think your siblings aren’t lying… or at least one of them?” He said they wouldn’t lie about that stuff because they get these a lot. I personally wouldn’t believe those children. He said there were signs leading up to it and it wasn’t just them. Lol
Before we left the car, we prayed, then the next day, he calls me after work to officially break up with me because it was a sign from God. He was just saying I’m too much for him & he said “I love you for the last time” then hung up. I called him twice, he declined both calls. He won’t be getting any crazy behavior from me.
Everything that lead up today was because he had communication issues. Haven’t spoken to him since Thursday afternoon. I bet he thinks i’m gonna chase after him.
I have
• told this man what kind of woman I am from the get go.
• he said that it was nothing he couldn’t handle.
• have asked him if we could pray together when I felt something off — he never did
But, I know I’m not too much for the right person, i’m beautiful, intelligent, loving, crazy, & not a demon lol