u/Big_Hunt7898

Title self explanatory

33 M here. I always wondered why I 'ended up' demi sexual I am wondering if there could be some relation between what i used to like and listen during adolescence and my sexuality.

I was a nightwish fan... could it be that I internalized all that 'cheesiness'??? (Not saying that demisexuality is cheesy ok... actually that is not the best word but is what I was able to find now)

Sempre fui daqueles devs que sempre tinha um projeto paralelo, criando um produto com ideia de vender e tal.

No paralelo fui crescendo na carteira. Hoje em dia trabalho pra gringa com um ótimo salário. Relativamente estavel.

Recentemente tenho focado mais na minha vida, ao invés de ficar 12h por dia no PC (trabalho + projeto paralelo).

Mas volta e meia me pergunto: será que deveria estar tentando construir um SaSS (hoje dia dia tenho pessoas interessadas a entrar em uma empreitada dessa comigo) mas sinceramente nao me sinto tao motivado mais. Em partes pelo "comodismo" que estou no meu atual trampo. E sempre me faço a seguinte pergunta: se eu focar só no trampo e usar meu tempo livre pra curtir minha vida tbm, eu alcanço meus objetivos financeiros em relativamente pouco tempo (estou na jornada da aposentadoria antecipada, FIRE).... enfim...

Acho que falei de mais....

O que queria era a visão de vocês sobre essa questão de: devemos estar sempre tentando um projeto em paralelo ou tem hora que é tudo bem falar: esrou de boa com meu trampo e ganho bem então quero focar em outras coisas que nao so programar.

Como você lida com isso?

Inspired by another post I decided to start an annual ritual of posting one update per year of my FIRE journey.

So here it goes:

Age: 33

Country: Brazil, currently living in Europe on a SailBoat

Work: Software developer, remote for an US company

Salary: 84K USD / year

Savings rate: 80 - 90% (5k to 6k USD per month). Yes I am really frugal

FIRE number:

Best case scenario: 600K USD

Not ideal: 400K USD

Worst case scenario (poverty FIRE): 200K USD

OR 2k USD dividends per month + some growth to maintain principal

Current net worth: 196K USD invested

Strategy:

Around 30% bonds

30% growth stocks / etfs

40% dividend payers (plan on living off dividends as soon as possible)

I have a house in a small city in brazil

When in Europe I live on my boat

Roast me / send your ideas, suggestions... or... questions??

Engine: yanmar 2ym15

Country: netherlands

Temperature this morning: 8°C

During my boating I saw some white smoke coming out of the exhaust. Not a lot. Just a little bit. And thin.

Just wondering If this could be an issue or is all ok?

I motored for about 1hour. The thin smoke was there during the whole time.

I motored up to 70% of cruising speed

Any ideas?

Not sure this is the right subreddit. But here we go.

Long story short

1. I have always been frugal

2. I am a software developer

3. I live onboard a sailing boat and work remotely

4. My job is not too stressful, if I keep the good work obviously

5. I know I am very privileged to be on this position

6. I am on my way towards LeanFire. About 33% of my final objective already

7. I have always worked a lot and I am a pretty reliable and proactive worker (always good feedbacks)

The closer I get to my FIRE objective and the more I learn to enjoy life onboard and it's simplicity the less I am motivated to work my regular job. Even though it is pretty ok as I told above.

Anyone ever been through this? Would love to hear your experience.

Be brutally honest, am I beeing too 'lazy' or is this just my priorities changing?

Not sure this is the right subreddit. But here we go.

Long story short

1. I have always been frugal

2. I am a software developer

3. I live onboard a sailing boat and work remotely

4. My job is not too stressful, if I keep the good work obviously

5. I know I am very privileged to be on this position

6. I am on my way towards LeanFire. About 33% of my final objective already

7. I have always worked a lot and I am a pretty reliable and proactive worker (always good feedbacks)

The closer I get to my FIRE objective and the more I learn to enjoy life onboard and it's simplicity the less I am motivated to work my regular job. Even though it is pretty ok as I told above.

Anyone ever been through this? Would love to hear your experience.

Be brutally honest, am I beeing too 'lazy' or is this just my priorities changing?