For context im 14f and she's 21 (i think) and she just had a baby. She didn't know she was pregnant until yesterday when she gave birth so it came as a shock to everyone. The baby isn't her boyfriends (they got tg 2 months ago so obvi) and the baby father isn't known so the situation is very messy.
She told my father that she wants to come to my party but im not sure if i want her to come. The party will be thrown in around 2 months.
Now to my party, where i live we have a tradition related to the church and at the end of it you get confirmed and you throw this big party. I'm inviting around 40 people which are all my relatives and people close to me. I haven't talked to many of these relatives in a super long time and i'm looking forward to it, i just feel like if she takes her baby with her the whole party is going to be about her and her new baby. I don't want the party to only revolve around me but its still a celebration for my acomplishments so i don't want anything kind of "disrupting" it. I also know all of my relatives are going to be buzzing around the baby for the whole time because it has previously happened. I'm seriously thinking about just not inviting her.