A woman rejected me for being “too nice” but says maybe in the future. What does that even mean?
So I’ve been seeing this woman for a little while and things honestly seemed to be going pretty well. Good conversations, good chemistry, regular dates, no obvious red flags. Then out of nowhere she tells me that I’m “too nice” and “too emotionally available” for where she currently is in life. According to her, she’s in a phase where she wants more “intensity,” “excitement,” and “unpredictability.” Her words, not mine.
But then comes the part that completely fried my brain: she also said that I’m basically “the kind of guy she may want later in life” and that maybe in the future our paths could cross again when she’s in a different place mentally. Have any of you dealt with this? And did “maybe later” ever actually mean anything real, or is it just a softer way of rejecting someone without fully closing the door?