This is a long story short but I gotta explain lol
I’ll try and TLDR at the bottom
I really want some unbiased input right right now I just need to explain the whole context
So last night I was sitting with my mom in her room just chilling and talking with her. She’s 61 and sometimes I just get anxious about the future because I’m an over thinker and you never know when anything can happen, I just get freaked out.
Anyway, I was sitting with my mom, she was laying in bed normal and I was laying across the bottom of the bed. So my GF just coincidentally at this time started sending frisky snaps, nothing crazy just a bra and underwear, not even a thong. My mom can’t see my phone so I was responding with things like “oh you’re hot😘” things like that. I wasn’t sending anything back because obviously I was with my mom and that would be insane. Then she FaceTimed me like we had planned to when she got outta the shower and I was still with my mom. My gf was fully clothed and we weren’t gonna talk dirty on the phone cause we don’t do that. I showed her my mom on the phone a minute after I answered and was like “tell her all the nice things I say to you” meaning all the stupid funny things couples say back and fourth lol. Then I went back to my room and we still talked for a bit everything was normal. I was literally falling asleep on the phone so we were like ok fine let’s go to sleep. I checked her last snap she sent and it said “I’m never doing that again” so I was joking around and sent her an “ass pic” but I had baggy sweatpants on so it’s nothing 😂🤣
Then this morning when I woke up I had a “good morning” text from her so i said “good morning 😘” and all she did was like it, cause we have iPhone’s, told her a funny dream I had all I got was the “HaHa” reaction and kept texting her about whatever and was only getting one word answers so somethings wrong. So I asked her and she said “last night was weird” and I asked what happened because I didn’t think that whole thing was weird she hit “haha” again so I FaceTimed her again and she was saying how weird it was I was responding to those around my mom, which like sure? in hindsight, but it’s really not that serious to me.
Thats the part she’s freaked out about and thinks I’m crazy for thinking thats it’s not weird. She thinks I’m weird asf for doing that. It’s not like me and my mom were actively engaged in a conversation the entire time I was with her because the anxiety calms just being with her.
So now she’s upset with me because she’s embarrassed about it, which I don’t think she needs to be. She told me that I should have left her on delivered or told her to stop. It was like only 3-4 snaps in a bra and underwear not even a thong.
I wanna know if I’m truly weird for that or if she’s over reacting?
TLDR:
My gf sent me frisky snaps (no nudes) and thinks I’m weird for responding to then when I was around my mom but my mom couldn’t see my phone and I didn’t send anything crazy back, just my face and saying “you’re hot😘” now she’s pretty upset at me.
We’ve been dating 4 months and had a different issue but its an entirely different story lmk if thats something anybody wants to hear