I (16F) think my friend (15F) tells her friends my personal business and I don't know how to handle the friendship anymore.
I have a friend that I always vented to about personal things, including my relationship with my girlfriend. But I started noticing that every time I tell her something private, the next day some of her friends act weird around me or seem like they already know things about my life.
The situation is complicated because she used to have feelings for me romantically (and I think she still might). I always made it clear that I only saw her as a friend, but ever since I started dating my girlfriend, she’s acted jealous and distant towards me.
Her friends also constantly “shipped” us together and made jokes about us being like couples, even when I was clearly uncomfortable.
Now I feel like I can’t fully trust her anymore, but I still care about her and don’t know how to handle this situation in a healthy way. I also don’t know if I should directly confront her about it or slowly distance myself instead, especially because she’s moving to another country soon.
How can I set better boundaries in this friendship without creating unnecessary drama?