u/Big-Restaurant-651

So a bit of context, me and my boyfriend (Trans F->M 19), we've been dating for almost 2 years now, and honestly things have been great but lately things have been awkward or have felt weird to me.

My past relationships have been very bumpy, bad and have not ended well (Cheated on/been outcast/etc), not short relationships past being almost year old to 3 year old relationships.

Me and my partner are very open with eachother, have common friend groups, hang out together alot, inform eachother when we go out, go out at night, etc.

But lately it has been bugging me, that they've been slighty more reserved and/or distant., I understand they've recently changed colleges and arent very open to everyone about their transition and identity but it has bugged me that they've gotten uncomfortable when i comment about it on media/their posts complimenting them since college friends follow them and well in their own profile their identity is pretty well established and very open to their identity so it had started to bug me aswell that they've lately been going out with friends and they tell me late or find out later, not trying to say that they have to report to me everything but we normally text alot during the day and they either leave on read and or respond till later in the day. I could understand my overthinking in that area.

But it has mainly come more to worry me lately as they've hanged out to clubs and or bars with friends and they're not very keen on drinking and it seems very out of character for them., and well we avoid hanging out / going out together during the weekend since we both have early classes during the week but seeing them go out late night with friends and at times, not accepting with me is mainly what has been making me feel off.