Honestly I don’t even know where to begin. I know this wasn’t an easy subject for him to open up to me about. Earlier this year my bf (25m) broke up with me out of nowhere. He said he was battling some personal stuff and come to find out he’s been battling a 🌽 addiction since he was younger. Now this was brought up recently because he accidentally had left his Reddit pulled up with numerous of pages / history pulled up. We don’t live together and I believe respecting each other’s privacy. Therefore I do NOT go through his phone and he doesn’t mine. But however I was asked to do something and as I was closing out of his messages I seen it.. right there in front of my face. I asked him about it jokingly if he did you know and he said last night and then told me he wanted to be honest about it. He was very embarrassed to tell me about it and asked for my help. He really wants to stop watching 🌽. It’s almost a nightly routine for him and apparently has been for years. Anybody else went through this? How can I help him? I’m honestly dumbfounded, confused, and I feel somewhat hurt. But I do love him and want to help him as best as I can..
Also I want to make this clear, we have the most perfect relationship. We tell each other everything no matter what. We both respect and trust each other more than anything. Plus, we’ve never had any issues with intercourse at all in the bedroom.
TIA..