Hi everyone, I’m hoping to get some honest advice and perspective.
I’m a 31F, practicing Catholic, and I’ve been trying to put myself out there in dating, mostly online. I’ve noticed a pattern that’s been really discouraging. I connect with a guy, the conversation goes well, there’s mutual interest, but once my height comes up, I’m 4’5”, it often becomes a deal breaker.
I do understand that people have preferences, and I don’t hold it against anyone. But after experiencing this multiple times, it’s starting to affect me more than I’d like to admit. It makes me wonder if this is something that will always stand in the way of me finding a relationship.
Lately this has been weighing on my heart, and I’m struggling not to lose hope.
From a faith perspective, I’ve been struggling a bit. I’ve always believed in trusting God’s plan, but lately I find myself wondering if maybe marriage just isn’t meant for me, and I don’t know how to come to terms with that if it’s the case.
If anyone has advice, encouragement, or honest thoughts, I’d really appreciate it. Thank you for reading. x