u/Big-Dragonfruit-2119

In two months I’ll be in a unique position to work anywhere in the United States. Looking to leave my current location on Long Island NY (which I’ve hated). Currently work in healthcare.
I value accessible nature, being able to go for a hike after work or camping trip on the weekend. Would prefer a mid size city. Not looking to live near millions. But with amenities, so airport w/in an hour, ideally a rock climbing gym, neat breweries/coffee shops, a concert/sports venue in town.
Current front runners are Spokane WA and Durham North Carolina (nervous bc I’m not a fan of humidity). Having a decent amount of sunshine year round is also important to me. As well as home affordability, as I’m looking to buy in the next couple years. Also a heterosexual 30yr old female looking to ideally meet a partner through hobbies and activities.
If anyone currently lives in above mentioned places and has further insights please share! Or if you have a new recommendation I would love to hear it!
Also for reference I’ve lived in Portland OR, San Diego CA, Florida, as well as upstate NY. Really not trying to go further East from NY. Would prefer a town that is purple politically as I enjoy the gun range but also enjoy equal rights for my fellow humans.