u/Big-Currency3103

Lost letters

Okay so, I had already made a post relating to this but I just got some news today…

My boyfriend has been in bct for a little over a week and for the longest time I thought the letters he had sent since reception were lost or just taking a long time to deliver. Didn’t know if it was due to it being an apartment or any other reason. Well today I got a letter from him letting me know that he’s been missing a key element — there’s 11 letters that do not have the apartment number.

All he writes on the envelopes is the address. No name, no return address. In the letter, he urges me to try to retrieve the letters because he’s been emotionally struggling with the fact that he knows I never received those letters and feels like a disappointment. I obviously hate that he feels like this, specially during such a physically and mentally demanding time.

My question is, is there a way to go to the post office and ask for those letters? If not, what can I do? They obviously won’t get back to him because there’s no return address. This might seem like a dumb or pointless question but I’m desperate and those letters are the only thing connecting me directly to him, besides his family.

Edit: I really don’t wanna build resentment (because that’d be so selfish) for not hearing from him but like I said, letters are the only thing we have and I hadn’t heard from him in weeks when he has a whole notebook with my exact address in sharpie. Idk maybe I’m spiraling lol.

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u/Big-Currency3103 — 2 days ago

Letters not getting to me

My boyfriend just started bct and therefore left reception around 1 week ago. During his first week at reception he had sent out letters to me and his family. They got them last Friday and I still haven’t gotten anything. It’s going on 2 weeks and I’m afraid those letters got lost. I also have the informed delivery app but nothing. I’m not sure if the fact that I live in an apartment and they’re in a house affects the delivery process. Is there any chance of me still getting them or should I just accept I’m never getting them? Kinda difficult since I haven’t heard a word from him since our face time during his first week. Help a girl out

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u/Big-Currency3103 — 6 days ago