u/BeyondBusiness3355

I (31F) was in a one-year relationship with a (32M- on meds/in therapy) that felt stable and consistent. Just days before the breakup, we were making normal future plans, including talking about moving in. Then he took me to a park and ended things, saying I “deserve a better man” and that he “needs drama” in a relationship. He wouldn’t even look at me—it felt very cold.
He said he’d reach out in a few days to see if we should continue, but never did.
I’m struggling to understand how it shifted so suddenly with no conflict or buildup. Did the relationship become too boring?Could this be someone getting overwhelmed or avoidant when things get more serious? Maybe the moving-in conversation triggered it.
I’m really hurt. How can you leave like that? No real explanation, nothing. I am heartbroken.