u/Better_Sport2774

Problem/Goal:

Hi friends ! Me and my bf plans to watch a series, but it’s just so hot outside, sa school kasi onti lang places may aircon so he ask if pwede Kaya sa penthouse ng dorm nila or sa dorm room niya.

Last week we just had our first kiss, he’s a virgin pa and we also I think made out na den. But due to privacy issues sometimes he invites me sa dorm room niya.

Does that mean sex kagad ? Or no naman siguro

And also, pano kaya kami makapag momol ng maayos na di ako mapupunta sa dorm room niya HAGSHAH am scared baka it’ll get spicy or maybe I’m overthinking lang.

And buti napipigilan niyo ? Or paano niyo napipigilan HAHAH

Problem/Goal: he still wants to fight for me.

Context:
I have a manliligaw and He has been persistent in pursuing me, even tho I rejected him 3 times na in the past. I eventually considered him and our relationship has been good naman. It’s been 2 years na.

I’ve been anxious lang a bit about us kasi, as a relationship okay talaga kami, yun ngalang parang iba yung direction ng future namin. He’s going to take med school and that would take a long time. Worry ko is paghihintayin niya ako, Tas Wala lang pala. Madami kasing ganun nangyayare.

He met my parents last month, and he met my dad ulit and they talked man-to-man. I told my dad that concern kasi and he agreed to that and ayaw ng dad ko den na paghintayin ako.

My dad said when they talked daw he’s been consistent na mag med siya, wag ko na daw siya asahan. Tapusin ko na daw with him.

My dad said na, mahal na mahal daw ako ng guy, kasi kahit siya na daw yung kaharap paulit ulit daw usapan nila na gagawan niya daw ng paraan and that we’ll make things work.

Even tho sinabi na ng dad ko na magiging mahirap yun and di yun kaya, magfocus nalang daw siya sa career niya kasi ayaw ng dad and mom ko na paghihintayin ako. Not that easy ang pagpapakasal, it’s just that nakakatakot lang maging in a long term relationship.

Previous attempts:

I plan to end it na but I still feel uncertain about it kasi I really love him. But, he still is firm sa ground niya hanggang ngayon na he still wants to fight for me, for us.

Even if I told him na, I’m losing hope kasi my parents don’t feel okay about it, paglalaban niya daw ako sa parents ko huhuhuh:((

Wala lang I really do care about it, I just don’t want us to waste time. Sabi niya na gagawan niya ng paraan ng makakaya niya basta ako daw kasama niya sa dulo. And na he wants to give me a good life ☹️

Many people would’ve wish to be in the position na the guy is fighting for me and I hate to be this person Pero I’m kinda losing hope ya’ll kasi ang hirap kumapit sa mga pangako that doesn’t feel sustainable and this thought would haunt me na baka I’ll just be that girl in his growing phase.

Idk what do you all think about this kuyas and ates ?
I know I’m overthinking it huhu, but it’s just a thought na I can’t help but think about. Pls be kind, I just really need your thoughts on this.

Hi Kuyas, I need your advice

I have a manliligaw. He has been persistent in pursuing me, even tho I rejected him 3 times na in the past. I eventually considered him and our relationship has been good naman. It’s been 2 years na.

(Kasi after college lang ako pinayagan magjowa Pero pwede daw ako pumayag manligaw Sabi ng mom ko and I told that terms to him na den so goods tayo mga bros hahaha)

I’ve been anxious lang a bit about us kasi, as a relationship okay talaga kami, yun ngalang parang iba yung direction ng future namin. He’s going to take med school and that would take a long time. Worry ko mga kuyas is paghihintayin niya ako, Tas Wala lang pala. Madami kasing ganun nangyayare.

He met my parents last month, and he met my dad ulit and they talked man-to-man. I told my dad that concern kasi and he agreed to that and ayaw ng dad ko den na paghintayin ako.

My dad said when they talked daw he’s been consistent na mag med siya, wag ko na daw siya asahan. Tapusin ko na daw with him.

My dad said na, mahal na mahal daw ako ng guy, kasi kahit siya na daw yung kaharap paulit ulit daw usapan nila na gagawan niya daw ng paraan and that we’ll make things work.

Even tho sinabi na ng dad ko na magiging mahirap yun and di yun kaya, magfocus nalang daw siya sa career niya kasi ayaw ng dad and mom ko na paghihintayin ako,
especially I’m a girl and ayoko na ang ganda ko na tapos Wala pa den.

I plan to end it na but I still feel uncertain about it kasi I really love him. But, he still is firm sa ground niya hanggang ngayon na he still wants to fight for me, for us.

Even if I told him na, I’m losing hope kasi my parents don’t feel okay about it, paglalaban niya daw ako sa parents ko huhuhuh:((

Wala lang I really do care about it, I just don’t want us to waste time. Sabi niya na gagawan niya ng paraan ng makakaya niya basta ako daw kasama niya sa dulo. And na he wants to give me a good life ☹️

Many people would’ve wish to be in the position na the guy is fighting for me and I hate to be this person Pero I’m kinda losing hope ya’ll kasi ang hirap kumapit sa mga pangako that doesn’t feel sustainable and this thought would haunt me na baka I’ll just be that girl in his growing phase.

Idk what do you think about this kuyas ?