I (36F) and my husband (35M) decided a few years ago to be childfree. I was always skeptical about raising a kid and carrying that responsibility since childhood, and after many discussions we made up our minds. We don’t have doubts about our choice—we’re a happy couple, married for 6 years (together for 10), and we genuinely enjoy each other’s company.
What sometimes bothers me are these thoughts:
After a certain age, will we feel something missing? A lot of people—and movies—portray “a complete family” as one with kids.
Growing old and being alone: as long as we have each other, we’re fine. But what about the time when only one of us is left? How do you deal with that loneliness?
Questions:
Are there folks with similar thoughts? What do you tell yourself?
Are there people in their 50s or 60s who chose to be childfree—how is it going for you?
For now, we’re happy and content with our decision. Just curious to hear from others who’ve walked this path.