u/Better_Education_979 — reddlx

The other day I (33F) had an after work drink with a friend, and ended up leaving the office later than usual (6:30pm instead of 5:30pm)
MIL (56F) was sleeping over as she watches Little One (2yo) when I’m in the office. Around 2x a week.

Husband (31M) was irritated I did not say I would be late and started texting me “I’m done with this” when I was outside the front door, and “I’m taking our 2yo with me” and got MIL to call asking where I am and why I’m so late. This really pissed me off because it was AN AFTER WORK DRINK! WTF?!? I WFH 3 days a week and have been really struggling with my identity post-partum.

Forgive me because I’m so angry I can’t think straight but

Why is your mother getting involved in our relationship
His mother already has boundary issues and tells us how to raise our child so him running to her just confirmed her false empowerment and eroded all the work we did to establish boundaries
Why u micromanaging me?

TLDR: Should I divorce? Help