I asked about it and he brushed it off saying it shouldn't concern me since it wouldn't affect our sex life so of course I dropped it. Now comes the issue, I got pregnant with my second, and everything changed. His masturbating became serious sometimes he'd pretend to want to be alone only to lock himself in the bedroom to wank with porn of course. I asked about and he said he didn't care that I know about it and it's his business. Since 4 months pregnant and now I am 3 months postpartum we haven't had sex. He hasn't initiated it and I won't do it just to be turned down. I mean I am just 23, should I just exit this marriage or what should I do coz I know trying to talk I'll just end up being gaslighted. Ps he's hardworking and he provides and loves his kids. I don't even know if I can satisfy him anymore.
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