u/Best-Vegetable1207

Please excuse me if this is inappropriate, I don't have too many trusted people I can ask this. I have a sister who is 13 years older than me. We did not grow up together, but she would occasionally stay with us when I was a child. Today, I was talking to someone about her staying with us, and I had mentioned how she has a weird habit of rubbing bodily fluids on your items because she thinks it's funny. She would sometimes take my toys and insert them inside of herself directly in front of me. She would smear poop and vaseline with pubic hair in it on my bedroom walls. The person I told this to was appalled and told me that was child sex abuse. I honestly don't think it was. She never actually touched me or did anything to me physically.