u/Best-Landscape7216

Hey! So my boyfriend and I were living togather for the first 2.5 years of our relationship. We moved in togather within 2 months. Well be hitting 4 years in May. We have been ldr at over 800 miles for the last year and half. I feel like im losing myself and my life is on pause for him. I have never loved and cared about somebody so much. He left to go do this life with some couple who gave him free a place to stay. He said he was going to do all these different things and the only thing he has done is gained a ton of weight. My life is exactly the same with the same job the same stress and same life. Where he gets to enjoy a whole new life without me. Im just waiting for his time and his calls. It feels like my life is on pause until he comes back around or decides to call or text me. Im just about to give up because I need more. Going from being physically present to long distance for so long is really hurting me. I need someone to hold me or just cuddle with me. How do you keep an ldr alive if you guys were inseparable before the distance? If I even should😭😭

USA// My boss said months ago that the building owner had it tested. I believed his word. But never saw proof. Today vermiculite was literally pouring out of the wall during construction.(Then the construction guy tells me their suppose to test stuff like this before start working but they didnt) Now I want physical proof of the tests. He told me to ask the building owner for the evidence of the testing done on the vermiculite. He hasnt awnsered me.(Its only been 4 hours) But everybody at my work/the construction guy is annoyed at me for asking for the physical evidence. My grandpa died of mesothelioma so I understand the risks very personally.(the construction guy even accused me of saying how did I know my grandpa died of asbestos if his lungs just gave out but he literally got mesothelioma)😭😭

Loose untested vermiculite in our store

Lmao guess who im calling