why am i only finding situationships on this app?
i (21 F) started using this app at the beginning of the year, and so far it has resulted in 3 situationships, no actual relationships, and lots of heartbreak. with each of the 3 guys, we started talking, agreed with what we wanted out of this (a serious relationship), spent time together, but then when things got sexual the dynamics changed. 2 of them ghosted me after a few weeks, and one said he “got too attached and has to cut me off for his mental health”. its been so draining and it feels like all the men i meet on hinge just want to use me for my body, while i become invested and try so hard to start a meaningful relationship with them. has anyone else had a similar experience, and how do you avoid these emotionally draining situationships?