1.5 years since my break up. Not able to move on.
We were together for 8 years, then she moved to a different country. We tried Ldr for 2 years but that didn't work out.
It was one random day when she chose to break things up. I wasn't in favor of it but the ldr made things worse. I was trying to move to the place where she was but that was very expensive and I don't have the financial background that she had. It would have taken more 2 years of ldr to make that possible. But she didn't want that. And then slowly the no contact thing was established between us. I never wanted to break things up. I did total detox of socials, and other things. Now I've had no social media for almost 2 years. I thought doing this would help me move on and be healthy for my mental health.
But still I get flashbacks of things we did together. I was more emotionally invested in her as my parents also knew about us.
Now, idk what she is up to is she even dating or not. I feel curious to know that if she has moved on or not and my friends say that there no chance of us to get back together. This is draining me mentally. Any tips that I can use. That would make my situation better. Physically I'm in the best shape of my life rn. That's the only good thing going on rn. But I feel mentally exhausted everyday. Please help me out.