I need advice on how to be a better lover
I am a 56F, my boyfriend is a 27M. We have a very active sex life due to us both having high sex drives, having sex at least once a day. We started dating when I was 51 and he was 22. I am the only woman he has ever had sex with. I am divorced, and have had a handful of partners in the past. In these five years he has learned every which way to bring me pleasure. I have never had better sex in my life. It’s like the sex gets better as time passes.
Part of it I will say is him being young. He was muscular when I met him, but has become even MORE muscular since then. It’s as though his strength and stamina has doubled. I, on the other hand, am pudgy, I will say. I personally am unhappy with the way I look, but he goes out of his way during foreplay, sex, and aftercare to show me that he thinks I’m sexy. He is also 6’2”, and I am 5’, so all my thoughts of feeling “too big” go out the window when he’s on top of me.
With him being so fit and me being out of shape, he is the one doing all the heavy lifting during sex, so to speak. He’ll pick me up and fuck me by the mirror, throw me into different positions I want to be in on the bed, and all I have to do is lie there and enjoy this young man plowing me into delirium. I try to hold my legs up and spread sometimes during missionary, but eventually they get so weak and shaky that his arms need to takeover. It makes me feel somewhat guilty even though he never complains about it.
He’s just so perfect. I used to be self-conscious about how much a sweat during sex and my “cow-like” moaning, but he’s told me how sexy he finds it. I want to find new ways to maximize his pleasure too. We’re now talking about marriage, and I want to be the hottest wife I can be lol
Anyone who’s also been in my situation, do you have any tips?