Why do most men come back after they ghosted or blocked a woman who the only men's intention was to just have some sexting with?
What are they thinking before daring to talk again to a woman they left on the dust?
Hey Men, I'm a woman in their 30s who has never been in a relationship.
Why do most men get uncomfortable when women become infatuated or intense?
As intense, I mean really into you, caring too much for you. You care so much for him, he just use you by blocking you, then after 6 months unblocking you, then blocking you again.
In the end there's a possibility he could be a dismissive avoidant.
Buckle up! This is a long one, I haven't been on Reddit for like 4 years. English is not my main language).
I'm a woman in her 30s, I have never been in a relationship only 2 "Situationships", this story is the 2nd one.
On a holiday I met a man who works in the business industry in Las Vegas, he seemed flirty.
I became very attracted to him, I end up searching him on Instagram, we end up meeting each other online and I was the one who began to be more flirty with him a bit spicy, so we both began having some sexting, doing a couple of videocalls and after a few months he did told me some personal things from his life that you would tell only to someone you trust, not someone you are barely getting to know, but I like it, I knew he had a daughter, I mean he had his own problems, but the way he talked, he always seemed quiet chill.
During that time I met him I had some very brief chats with an old lady fan of his, just to make a friends on online, she never knew about our sexting but she end up blocking me and told him gossip about me that never happened, he got mad.
In the end I didn't reacting well, specially with my ocd, anxiety and so on, because I got paranoid becoming obsessive, begging, wanting his breadcrumbs he later on blocked me, I got obsessed with the idea of him and me, even though I could've chose the friend route since the beginning, he even disrespected me when we encountered in on Facebook where he didn't blocked me, he just restricted me and after like 6 months he unblocked me from WhatsApp and Instagram, he has 2 Instagram accounts and both are 'Private'.
I know I'm not a very stable person, but I really don't know what to think about him, because when he unblocked me he asked me for a video (you know what kind) I told him to have a raincheck on that, I don't know if he got offended because after that, he never spoke to me again, he only watched my Instagram stories.
I end up sending him some texts and I obviously disturbed his peace.
One day I decided that I couldn't handle him draining me, so I decided to unfollow him and block him. I was so sure about myself but the next day I regret it, and screwed up even more, I end up unblocking him and send him a message where I for a very unexplained reason that "I love him", he send me a text where he told me that he didn't want a relationship and that he felt uncomfortable with that text that I should 'Respect' him and blocked me for WhatsApp and Instagram again, which I never understood why because I already unfollowed him on insta and it's private, maybe for the messages. But not from his 2nd instagram that I think is more personal to him, I can still see his public posts from Facebook, I find it very odd that he blocks me from some accounts and form others doesn't.
In the end I need to keep going with my therapist to get over him and I wanted to write and rant this whole damn story to ask...
Does anyone think he's a stable man? Or am I just losing my life focusing on him?