u/Beneficial-Nerve-956

I’m way too broke for a single therapy session so I will be pouring my heart out on reddit.

Am I the problem?
I have had been in two relationships, both where I had gotten cheated on and where also both of relationships had said to me that “I do not put in enough effort in the relationship”. Which I could agree on.
I don’t mind texting everyday all day, although, I don’t like calling, I don’t like spending too much quality time with them, and I noticed I just distance myself awa from them subconsciously?
I understand these are things I definitely need to work on but are these traits seriously not normal in any kind of relationship? Does anyone else struggle with this?

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u/Beneficial-Nerve-956 — 11 days ago