u/Beneficial-Metal-475

Im 30 and i live in Canady, my girlfriend and I are struggling financially. My mom expects me to send money to my family back home in Mexico, even tho all my family in mexico have houses.

One of my aunt has 3 houses, and a massive peace of land.

My aunt recently spent lots of money on her daughters birthday party, they rented an entire mcdonalds for 3hrs for a birthday party.

Yet my other aunt put a massive down payment Hall for her daughters 16th birthday

Yet my mother expects me to help out. My mother calls me selfish and arrogant because i dont send money, well recently my mother sent $300 to mexico

Do you think im being selfish??????

I could definitely understand if they were starving and struggling