Question about non traditional co parenting
Im sorry if this feels totally irrelevant to this group as im not an parent, but I just have a question for the parents who do coparent or have specific agreements with their child’s father/vice versa or maybe a dads perspective and point of view. What is usually the case when the dad doesn’t have the kid every other week and etc, like most and some agreements but see’s the kid every now and then as kid basically stays full time with mom and her new family. Is this just an specific thing between the parents or can it be questionable? Not saying bio dad is fully out of child’s life because I know he is not, but can this be on the dad choosing when and when not to see his kid or possibly mom having strict boundaries on time with their kid? Dad lives about 35 minutes away so I can’t see this being an distance issue for access to the child. And also, I know I won’t know for sure until I “ask the parent(s), but before I get to that in the mean time I just could use some perspectives before creating a far off narrative in my head.