u/Beneficial-Golf-9756

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Have you ever asked someone to kiss differently? How did it go?

I went on date #2 lastnight and we had so much fun. Great convo, good chemistry. We talked for hours tbh. But he went in for the kiss tongue first and I HATE that shit. For me, there is a time and place for tongue.. I could literally feel his tongue slip through my lips before his lips hit mine and I just couldn’t keep kissing. He even said “wow, you are a good kisser.” Like wtffff!?

This was date 2 and I noticed it on date 1 too but figured he was just nervous. In the moment I felt compelled to do a little giggle “he keep your tongue in your mouth, would ya!?” Like in a playful way.. but kinda didn’t want to be a buzz kill. He seems to have some dating experience so I can’t imagine people have been kissing him back not thinking the same thing. Just wondering if anyone has even had luck re-teaching someone how to kiss or even how to kiss THEM, and frame it as a “this is how I like it” idk… share your stories too please.

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u/Beneficial-Golf-9756 — 19 hours ago

It started like two weeks ago. My forearms are sore and tingly, hands tight and tingly, fingers numb and tingly. It’s obviously from major inflammation from whatever flare I have going on right now. I have an appointment in two weeks. Just looking for what works for everyone. I got diagnosed a few years ago, but I have always struggled with this late in the allergy season my whole life. This symptom is one of those things that “oh it makes sense now I guess” of random symptoms that accompanies this disease.

The weird thing is, I have never struggled like this early in the allergy season, and the one year I was on Rinvoq this didn’t happen that year. I also didn’t have any allergies that year. Like at ALL. So weird, might have to switch back.

Anyway, looking to see what works. I tried sauna, I tried hydration, I take creatine, I’m pretty well nourished right now. I just got done with my iron infusions so the tingles shouldn’t be from that. But I can’t get decent sleep right now because of it. I keep waking up and my arms are dead asleep, completely numb. By the time I get up and pee I’m so bothered and in pain that it’s usually awake from there.

Any suggestions appreciated ❤️

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u/Beneficial-Golf-9756 — 12 days ago