I have a question - I am 27M and suffer from Aspergers syndrome, I have only two close friends and a few acquaintances and I don't date because my world view is so different to other people, this isn't a complaint, I am happy with my life so far but I have been experiencing symptoms of PTSD linked to something that happened two years ago I would appreciate advice on.
2 years ago I decided to open myself to dating again, something I hadn't done since I was a teenager, I got involved with this girl and we began to date, spend time at each others houses, watch movies together and the beginnings of a sexual relationship began, I told her that due to both my autism and my general views around love that i wasn't comfortable sleeping together immediately but we could do other things (not going to get NSFW but I'm sure you can imagine) that aren't full intercourse. She agreed to this and for weeks things were good, even great at times, but then one night she came over to my house really drunk, I was expecting her to visit but not turning up drunk, I explain that we should just watch a movie and relax that evening and she agrees but within an hour she is initiating things and very quickly climbs on top of me, I froze as she took my pants off and it all just kind of... Happened.
I didn't react or say no because of my condition, it can take me a long time to find the correct way to speak in the best of times but in this instance I couldn't find any words and so it went on and on with me just lying there.
My question is, with me being sober but suffering from Aspergers syndrome and her being drunk, does what happened to me constitute SA or am I overreacting to what happened.
(I struggle with relationships in general, platonic or romantic, so this complex emotional situation has kept me up at night for two years now)