I (23f) have always dated men my entire life. I’ve known I was bisexual for a very long time, but never explored the wlw aspect. After a particularly bad breakup with a man, I’ve decided to focus solely on women.
However, I feel that I am very lost. I think a lot of women aren’t attracted to me. I have asked friends to set me up with other women, or been on Tinder. I’ve always dressed very casual, I haven’t done my hair in any particular ways etc etc. I don’t necessarily “look” gay. Is there something I should be doing to improve my appearance? It has honestly been slowly ruining my confidence and I don’t like feeling this way.
What I am asking: should I switch up my style? Is there certain places/dating apps I should be trying?
Any help would be really appreciated, thank you from someone that is very new to this.