All the time when I am with women, they tell me this guy is trying to pursue her or this guy sent her an ig request, however this never happens to me.
People tell me I look attractive face wise (strangers and acquaintances) but I have literally zero guys ever trying to get into a relationship with me or pursuing me, that’s why I really struggle to believe the compliments. There were a couple of times when I saw men do a double take at me. At work there were two guys who always staring at me whenever I looked in their direction for almost a year, they were young Arab men with long beards and very religious, just strange. I live in MENA and I don’t dress up or wear makeup. I do dress very modestly (abaya and wide hijab). I don’t do small talks with men. I am also not Arab or white. Maybe I am not attractive as I thought I was.