u/BellsR18

I’ve sat with both of them privately and discussed how I’ve felt. I decided to stay with my boyfriend but I did make sure he understood that the trust has been broken and it will take time for it to build back up again. However, my mum keeps bringing it up in a “jokey” way and says things like “why are you still with him”, “do you actually want a baby with HIM” or “do you even want to marry him” and I don’t know what to do anymore. Me and my boyfriend are working on the relationship together but my mum only seems to blame him even tho they (my sister and my boyfriend) were both equally in the wrong. I don’t want to break up with my boyfriend but I don’t know how to handle this situation anymore and it’s tearing me apart