Should I just take my dad with me to Ukraine?????
For context. My dad is in his 60's and lives in Texas off of disability due to some complications with his back and doesn't work and has no savings besides disability. He married some chick down here and gets to live in her house rent-free... but here is where the problem starts. I told him this week I was going to Ukraine and while he was upset for a minute or two he quickly told me him and his wife were going through troubles and she was banging some iranian dude... blah blah blah basically she is making him sleep on the couch while banging this dude she met and my dad can't really afford to divorce her as he doesn't have savings and he said he is ready to go to combat for Ukraine and wants to come with me. For context my dad did hard drugs a couple decades ago and was an alcoholic but that was all decades ago from my understanding, but I wouldn't be suprised if there is chance for relaspe if avaliable. I am just trying to understand if I am truly cruel for disuading him from coming with me to Ukraine or if he is capable of whipping Russian *ss still and would contribute to the mission. I personally wouldn't want him in my squad but he is a good guy. Thanks for any advice here.